Marriage

who needs it?

I know so many will disagree, but lately I've been thinking about this.

A friend of mine (he) said "We're not like girls.. We haven't thought of our wedding since we were 5 years old. I don't mind getting married, but only if she wants to" and I was like...

I've never thought of my wedding.. actually never thought it through. Only thought about Vera Wang cause I love fashion, but really... no!

I don't think I'd like to get married - at least not in a church, cause I'm not a practising christian and I think that'd be a lie to get married in a church. I'd get married in the town hall, but only because getting married has benefits concerning children, inheriting, money, house etc.

The fact that you should get married because it's practical is wrong, cause I already think you've said "i do" by being together loving each other. Of course it's easier walking away if you're not married, but still.. I thought marriage was originally was a thing God would bless you with.

I don't need that.

Maybe it has something to do with my mom and dad didn't get that big white wedding either. They got married secretely at the town hall and yeah... the thought of a big white wedding with 300 guests, fancy dinner etc. is too much attention on two people saying "i do" which you can do just the two of you.

I'd rather use all those money on a vacation with the closest or a big dance party for those 300 people and just celebrate life and love.

just a thought